“You will lose if you choose to refuse to put her first/she will and she can find a man who knows her worth.” Alicia Keys, “A Woman’s Worth”
OK, I guess I’m going to need someone to break it down … Read the rest
When you live in a society that glorifies independence and emphasizes the concept of ‘self,’ it can be hard to recognize the difference between upholding one’s standards and refusing to compromise.
Since the beginning of time, stories of men and … Read the rest
Several years ago, after we’d been dating for a few months, my boyfriend Calvin and I decided that our relationship had developed enough to reach the next milestone: Meeting the Folks. The fact that we were in our thirties and … Read the rest
NO! is a Complete Sentence
Establishing Boundaries and Standards
Teaching Women How and
When to Say “NO!”
Most women struggle with saying “no!” to other people, especially males. When a woman is anxious to be liked, to be wanted, to … Read the rest
Hey, Chocolate Mama again….
……if those “I don’t see racism, so it doesn’t happen” morons don’t work your nerves, those selective-memory-having and sexist anti-birth-control jack@$$es will: here are not one, but TWO unenlightened letters I received from folks who felt … Read the rest