Bums, Scrubs and Red Lobster, Oh My!

Several years ago—-okay, more like a decade and some change—I went out on a dinner date with a guy I’ll call ‘Reggie.’ Back when I was single, the gentlemen who asked me out were given a couple of chances at the most to demonstrate whether or not there was compatibility between us, or if he… Continue reading Bums, Scrubs and Red Lobster, Oh My!

Standards, Struggle Love and A Woman’s Worth

The first time I heard Alicia Keys, I was with my mother. She’s not half the music fan that her daughter turned out to be, but that didn’t keep Mama from getting wind of Keys’ first single, “Fallin,’” and playing it every. chance. she. got. In fact, she played it so often and so incessantly… Continue reading Standards, Struggle Love and A Woman’s Worth

Oct. 10: Steve Harvey Creates Site For More “Dateable” Women

Don’t you just LOVE it when someone who’s as grimy as all get-out creates a product or service that promises to correct your inherent flaws/faults? We can’t just ‘think like ladies and act like men’ anymore, now we need to plug into this ‘insightful’ database to determine what’s best suited to our feminine deficiencies, JOY!!!… Continue reading Oct. 10: Steve Harvey Creates Site For More “Dateable” Women

Guest MOC Post: “Out On a Limb For Love” By Summerrain

Have you ever been in a relationship, and you woke up one day asking yourself “What the hell just happened?” after a bad breakup? Then a rain of questions start coming down like “Why can’t I find the right man to love me like I loved him? What’s wrong with me?” “Why it was easy… Continue reading Guest MOC Post: “Out On a Limb For Love” By Summerrain

Niecy Nash’s “It’s Hard To Fight Naked,” Knowshi Book Review/MOC Preview Link

…..Experience is the most effective teacher, and with 16 years of a prior marriage, a divorce, three children, years of singles party hosting under her belt and yes, a second husband in the mix, Ms. Nash uses a Sincere Sister Mode to break down what she’s learned singleness, dating, finding eligible men, getting to exclusivity… Continue reading Niecy Nash’s “It’s Hard To Fight Naked,” Knowshi Book Review/MOC Preview Link