True story—- I used to know a woman with a preteen who had natural hair: it was beautiful and thick like a lion’s mane and reddish just like her dad’s (who is biracial). Mom decided she was tired of doing … Read the rest
Chocolate Mama here is no Relationship Expert, and never actually claimed to be. However….my Grown Woman’s Intuition goes into full-tilt alarm mode when a Hollywood man is cheesing hard in every picture with a particular actress (ladies, you know what … Read the rest
This article spells out the huffy, condescending and projecting types of responses I get from some white readers when my columns happen to focus on race. A few of them have actually thanked me for educating/enlightening them on our issues … Read the rest
What, what, WHAT will it take for more of our so-called ‘men’ to use their efforts against the pedophiles in their families and communities rather than to bash, ridicule and sabotage their own mothers, daughters, sisters and SOs? They’re the … Read the rest
Happy Election Day Peeps! First off, a PSA—PLEASE make sure you get out there and make your voices heard, too much is at stake if you don’t!
Second, I saw this letter on a FB page and it REALLY rubbed … Read the rest