Several years ago, after we’d been dating for a few months, my boyfriend Calvin and I decided that our relationship had developed enough to reach the next milestone: Meeting the Folks. The fact that we were in our thirties and included my son on dates didn’t diminish the butterflies I felt in wanting to make… Continue reading The Right Woman + Good Man + Daughters = Former Playa
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Sexist Or Supportive? Deborrah Cooper’s Book Examines The “Black Church”
It’s a social phenomenon and statistical reality that became a controversial catalyst for blog posts and news outlets across the nation: Why do most single women in the United States happen to be black? The subsequent scrutiny of the issue did little to dispel the facts: 2010’s U.S. Census found that African-American women represented the… Continue reading Sexist Or Supportive? Deborrah Cooper’s Book Examines The “Black Church”
Deborrah Cooper: Single Sisters, Burdensome Brothers & Her Book “The Black Church…”
Raise your hand if you’ve heard the following explanations given for the reasons that more Black women are single these days: Bossy. Bitter. Unrealistic standards and an unwillingness to compromise or accept less than their ideal Mr. Right. If none of those rang true to you either, then you’ll understand why author and seasoned relationship… Continue reading Deborrah Cooper: Single Sisters, Burdensome Brothers & Her Book “The Black Church…”
Nina Simone: Biopic’s Tone-Deaf Casting Choice Belittles Her Blackness
Although she’s been gone now for nearly a decade, the legend and the legacy of entertainer Nina Simone remains alive and well, thanks to that hypnotic and velvety alto, her ability to transcend musical boundaries and the way she used her lyrics and celebrity status to denounce racism at the height of the Civil Rights… Continue reading Nina Simone: Biopic’s Tone-Deaf Casting Choice Belittles Her Blackness
Girls Will Be Women, But Should ALSO Become Ladies
She was tall, thin and matronly, with cat’s-eye glasses and a helmet of salt-and-pepper curls. Her name was Lola Garrison, and she was my sixth-grade teacher. A sweet, soft-spoken woman who rarely raised her voice, Mrs. Garrison once chastised a flip-at-the-lip female classmate of mine by uttering, in a sharp tone that she rarely… Continue reading Girls Will Be Women, But Should ALSO Become Ladies